Your words are so poignant.  A beautiful and simply said tribute to a wonderful woman.  Nola was a wonderful loving wife, mother and friend.  I am feeling the loss of her and know that it is just the beginning.  She was my rock during so many trials and tribulations.  I could not have survived as well without her.   Susie called me at 5am to let me know.  She was up early and read your email.  We talked for an hour or so and then Pam called me we just got  off the phone.  I am sure you will be hearing from many friends today.  I know these few days will be busy for you.  I will call you later after you've had some time.    I am thinking of you all and I believe with all my being that Nola is watching over all of you and she is close by.  I learned in my psychic group that we always have free will.  And we keep that forever.  Nola was always in charge and lived her life the way she wanted.  Her concern was always with you and she is still right there by your side.  I am convinced she won't leave you alone for a minute.  I mean that in the best way.  She and I had a chance to talk about my group and she was interested in hearing about what I was learning.  I believe that group opportunity came to me at a time when I truly needed it.  I now have a stronger believe in the after life and all the opportunities there are for all of us.  Maybe some day you and I can talk in more depth.  Maybe it will help you deal with this tremendous loss.  I know it is helping me.   I am your friend always, Love, Carol