My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.  Nola has made a difference in my life and that of many others.  Be assured that her life has been an inspiration to all of us who have known her and that it will continue to be so even when the end occurs.  If there is anything at all that I can do for either of you or your family, do not hesitate to let me know.  She gave me the ultimate honor by marrying Jim and me and I will forever remember that. Please give her my love and tell her that my life has been the better by far for having known her.